So there is a lot of buzz going around the idea of becoming a bad boy.
Some say that it is only the badass that is able to hook up girls and make them crave him.
But is that really true?
What about the other guys?
Are the rest of them totally screwed and have no chances?
The answer depends on a variety of factors. However, one thing is for sure- the nice guy has a really hard time getting girls.
Furthermore, even if he gets a girlfriend, it is total to the woman- she has the entire control up her sleeve and can do whatever she wants.
And sadly, more often than not she leaves the nice guy.
Now let's dive a bit deeper to discuss the difference between the bad boy, the good guy and the nice guy.
We will find out who is the most effective at picking up girls and securing dates for himself.
The good guys are these kinds of men who are good, kind, passionate. They are willing to help others, those who are in need and are searching for help.
And, of course, they will always give a hand to a woman in need.
In this regard, the bad boys have a lot in common with the good guys.NOTICE, the good guys, not the nice guys. Soon we will see what is the difference.
The bad boys have certain traits and features that make them different.
And while it is normal for us to associate them with being rough or tough, they aren’t necessarily this kind of person.
Now, let's take a look at the nice guys.
The nice guys have something in common with the good ones- they are both good to people.
However, the comparison ends here.
The nice guy gets out of control when we talk about goodness.
He is beyond agreeable and compassionate.
These kind of guys have no guts to stand tall. For themselves!
They can't defend themselves, so how can they protect others? What about guarding a girl?
Now you combine that with weak and soft personality- a really bad match indeed.
Being good and kind isn’t necessarily bad, however, when taken to the extreme of the nice guy this is a disaster.
So you need to watch ut and put more emphasis on your behavior.
We cannot say for sure who is the only winner in this “fight”. Everyone has own positive and negative features and they can swing the game every moment.
It is up to you to decide who should win. Furthermore, it is up to you to say what makes one more attractive than the other and vice versa.
BUT you must pay special attention to the type of traits you adopt and decide to implement. They can be the difference between your success story with a girl and the ultimate failure.
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